Your Mantra for Change
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Mantras are the positive self-talk which makes a difference. Mantras remind us of the less obvious, less intuitive ideas which we need to be reminded of over and over again. …
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November 2019 – Kids 0-8 – Members Only
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Why kids get too aggressive or too passive
Tell me if you agree: I’ve found that unhealthy boundaries often push people to an extreme. It’s especially apparent in our kids. Ideally, we navigate a conflict with grace, but…
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a quick Healthy Boundaries assessment
Last week, I sent you the intro video to the Boundaries and Consent Bootcamp, so you’d know more about what paradigms and sage wisdom don’t work. It’s not just knowing what we’re moving away from, though. Let’s also…
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shifting from reactive to proactive
When I survey parents, their number one desire is to have more bandwidth. They’re stretched thin and wish they could be more proactive and less reactive. And the holidays just make it…
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October 2019 – Sex-ed and Tech – Members Only
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Pediatric Visits and Consent
A friend recently asked me about a scenario. As I understood it, it goes like this: A parent takes a 10 year old boy to his regular pediatric appointment. They’ve…
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Consent in daily life: food, safety, hygiene
As September is Consent month, let’s think about all the ways consent and parenting knock heads. Frankly, a whole swath of topics involve coercion and threats more than they do…
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September 2019 – Consent – Members Only
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6 ways we can stop enabling child abusers
Some of the cultural norms we’ve inherited are taken advantage of by pedophiles. None of us want to enable child abusers! Yet, these 6 norms are things that are often…
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