What to do when little kids masturbate
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Recently I received an email from a concerned parent, asking for advice. Here’s the gist: The child had discovered genital stimulation at about 2 years old. The parents had…
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January 2020 – Teens – Members Only
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Getting the worst offenders in your family on board
School’s out! Woo hoo! The holidays approach… With all that looked-forward-to family time, is there a twinge of anxiety about how a certain person will behave? There are often particular…
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December 2019 – Media Messages – Members Only
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Another school shooting…and how we respond
I’m sure your heart sank, as mine did, to see another school shooting last week. It’s the 5th school shooting in the US in 2019. A mass shooting is always…
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Your Mantra for Change
Mantras are the positive self-talk which makes a difference. Mantras remind us of the less obvious, less intuitive ideas which we need to be reminded of over and over again. …
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November 2019 – Kids 0-8 – Members Only
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Why kids get too aggressive or too passive
Tell me if you agree: I’ve found that unhealthy boundaries often push people to an extreme. It’s especially apparent in our kids. Ideally, we navigate a conflict with grace, but…
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a quick Healthy Boundaries assessment
Last week, I sent you the intro video to the Boundaries and Consent Bootcamp, so you’d know more about what paradigms and sage wisdom don’t work. It’s not just knowing what we’re moving away from, though. Let’s also…
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shifting from reactive to proactive
When I survey parents, their number one desire is to have more bandwidth. They’re stretched thin and wish they could be more proactive and less reactive. And the holidays just make it…
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